Dating Decoded

First digital edition — September 2026

Licensed for personal use only. Unauthorised reproduction, resale or distribution is prohibited.

Important note

This book is written mainly for men who date women. Much of the historical research in dating psychology used heterosexual, cisgender and Western samples. Those limits matter. Group averages are never rules about individuals.

This book is educational, not medical or psychological treatment. Attraction is not consent. Interest is not consent. A date, a kiss or prior sexual activity is not consent to anything else. Mutual choice and the ability to slow down or stop are assumed throughout.

Edition and reader information — page 2

Important note